Unless you're a white cis-het dude, the system was not designed to work for you. But when we figure out the system doesn’t work for us, we learn how to work the system.
Read moreSay "Yes" to You Being You
It’s a new year. And, like me, I bet you have high hopes for 2021 to be not just “better” but “BETTER”. As I think about how you can make things BETTER for you I'm reminded of the importance of one big "yes": your right people.
Read moreBeating Perfectionism: Two Questions That Help Me Let Go
How do we know when to let our hard work out into the world? To hit "send" and wave goodbye? It can be difficult to know when to let go of something that we're working on. I struggle with this as much as the next person. But now, I ask myself two things…
Read moreCult Commands Part III: What Do We Do About Them?
Cult commands are the negative self-talk in our minds. They’re usually mean and unfounded. And, they stick around, preying on our vulnerabilities. We need to do something about them! There's no quick hack here. No magic wand that will erase our cult commands. But, we can change them.
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