Yvette was a pretty dark haired woman in her early 30's. If you saw her at Starbucks, you wouldn't believe she was a domestic violence survivor.
Read moreCult Commands Part III: What Do We Do About Them?
Cult commands are the negative self-talk in our minds. They’re usually mean and unfounded. And, they stick around, preying on our vulnerabilities. We need to do something about them! There's no quick hack here. No magic wand that will erase our cult commands. But, we can change them.
Read moreCult Commands Part II: Long Term affects
Language influences how we act and how we speak. If our pain, emotional or otherwise, has been minimized, we minimize our own wants and needs.
Read moreLove Is The Answer = Myth, Peril and Prison
But love is never The Answer, especially when things aren't good or are downright bad. The issue of love must be factored out of the hard questions you ask yourself. Questions like:
"Should I stay?"
"Why don't they ever______?"
"When will they stop thinking only of themselves?"
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