The words we share matter, not what we label the language.
All in Culture & Society
Unless you're a white cis-het dude, the system was not designed to work for you. But when we figure out the system doesn’t work for us, we learn how to work the system.
What metrics do we need to determine if we should let something go? Or not pursue it in the first place? I have some ideas but - spoiler- not The Answer. (In part because I’m not sure there is only one.)
Christmas as a Frame of Mind, revisited
Maybe that's at least part of the idea of Christmas as a frame of mind. To offer generosity of spirit without knowing it's "deserved" first.