Maybe that's at least part of the idea of Christmas as a frame of mind. To offer generosity of spirit without knowing it's "deserved" first.
Read moreThoughts on the Rittenhouse verdict
I hadn't followed this trial at all. So I'm commenting less from a place of case facts, the law and specific trial details. I'm commenting as a (white) observer of race in America today. With that in mind, feel free to skip. If you're staying, thanks.
Read moreBeating Perfectionism: Two Questions That Help Me Let Go
How do we know when to let our hard work out into the world? To hit "send" and wave goodbye? It can be difficult to know when to let go of something that we're working on. I struggle with this as much as the next person. But now, I ask myself two things…
Read moreCult Commands Part I: The Angry Voice in Your Head
You can recognize a cult command because the theme is hopelessness. It's the ultimate in absolutism: there is nothing you can do.
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